Judging sexual health is a complex topic. If you think you're happy with your sex life you probably are, essentially your gyno will think you are happy as well. But if your gyno wants answers to just how happy you are with your sex life she is going to want facts. One simple ways that a gyno measures your sexual function is the questionnaire developed study with Raymond Rosen, Ph.D. at Robert Wood Johnson Medical School as the lead investigator. And what they developed was a simple set of questions about some of the most important aspects of your sex life desire, arousal, lubrication, orgasm, satisfaction and pain and it's available on line as the FSFI . If you would like to take the quiz,you can do that and if you'd like to improve these aspects, it may be time to gab with your gyno as there are many new therapies available, including creams for orgasms, new vaginal treatments including DHEA creams, non-hormonal safe vaginal rejuvenation, such as MonaLisa Touch and Thermiva, the PRP O shot so there is no longer a reason to not bring up sex for discussion!